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Tuesday, 20 February 2018

Here's How to Keep The Fire of Your Long Distance Relationship Burning


Long distance relationship is usually very hard to keep, and really really hard. But it does not have to be boring you know, there are ways to spice it up you know.


If you are willing to make it work, even through all the temptations and missing them, all the hotter guys asking you out and the fear that she might be with someone, well, here's help.

Long distance is something that melts people. It is difficult to maintain one and that’s a very mainstream statement to make. 

It is the best way to realize the importance of the other person. It shows us the true value of a relationship and the worthiness of the other. 

It is a test for all those who are strong enough to handle one. And so, here are a few tips and ways by which one can spice up their long distance

This article is specially made for you, and here is how to spice up your long distance relationship:
  1. FIND SIMILARITIES

    You might find this too mushy mushy, but no. It actually helps. Do a random 1-10 rating rapid fire round and find out what he/she likes most about what you like too. They might end up liking what you love too. But no, don’t expect your boyfriend to rate clothes and accessories. If you want to, give him an option of going negative on numbers.
  2. USE DIFFERENT SOCIAL PLATFORMS TO COMMUNICATE

    This is an absolutely fun thing to do. Make use of all kinds of social platforms whenever necessary. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram etc. Stalk each other like maniacs, tag each other on posts you can relate to. It’s a great feeling to relate to things, on a serious note. Sometimes what you can’t say, the posts say. This makes a relationship stronger from time to time!
  3. GIVE IMPORTANCE

    Listen to what the other person has to say. You can’t go on and on about what you want and what your opinion is. And even if you do, don’t impose it on them. This take a wrong turn when the relationship is only one sided. Nobody wants a relationship like that. Make sure whatever you say, you’re doing that and at the same time you’re exploring something new about them. Don’t let go of that opportunity.
  4. GIVE SPACE

    THE MOST IMPORTANT ONE. Let the other person breathe. If they want to go out, let them. If they don’t want to text you for some time, let that be it. Don’t make a fuss out of small issues. Sometimes, even if it’s the hard truth, the fact is that we need ourselves more than we need our better halves. Sometimes your importance defines your relationship. What you need is probably more important that what the relationship needs at the moment.
    One of the biggest problems that come up are boyfriends (even girlfriends sometimes) telling their better halves to not dress up the way they do. IT’S A BIG NO NO TO THAT. Dress up the way you want to. Dress up for yourself. Make sure what you do makes you happy because that’s how you’ll be able to keep the relationship working. And stay away from people who tell you what to do.
  5. TAKE DECISIONS TOGETHER

    Everyone in a serious relationship would understand this. With the growth of the relationship, people start to understand that they have some responsibility and duty towards their partners. And so, taking decisions becomes very important. Talk about things. Talk about lifelong goals and make sure that you help each other decide what you want. This helps one develop their relationship their own way.
  6. TRUST EACH OTHER

    This is too mainstream but true. Be there for each other when you need each other the most. Everyone makes a mistake for which you stop trusting them. But if you’re looking for ways to make your relationship stronger, then make sure you also see how much effort your partner is making in order to gain your trust back. Please don’t make them feel like they committed a crime. It’s really very immature to get in between all those mistakes from the past in your present fights. Stop that.
  7. SEND RANDOM LETTERS AND GIFTS

    Random smiles and random moments of happiness. Trust me, you’re never going to forget them for the rest of your life. Let your partner know that no matter what, you’re still thinking about them. And you like their habits and the way they are.
  8. BE OPEN AND HONEST ABOUT YOUR OPINION

    Don’t keep anything inside. Whenever needed, be brutally honest. It is the best thing to do and avoid future judgments.
  9. COMPROMISE WHENEVER NEEDED

    Adjust to what the other person has to say. Sometimes what you’re saying can be less reasonable than what your partner wants to say. And there’s no harm in that. You should be able to compromise with what you feel sometimes. I might not give you temporary satisfaction, but for the long run, it’ll be best.
  10. SET SOME TARGETS

    For a long term relationship and for something you feel is going to last, set some goals. Of course, your goals can be short term. And only and only if you’re able to hit the success line of these goals will you be able to face your long term goals. 
  11. KEEP YOUR WORD

    If you said something, make sure you do that. A lot of times in relationships one simply runs away from their responsibility thinking that ‘it’s alright, maybe he/she will forget about it.’ No, nobody forgets anything. And they probably don’t even say anything to you because they let that go and you, here also need to be particular about what you say.
  12. DON’T GET EGO IN BETWEEN

    Seriously, if it’s your fault, admit it. No one’s pulling you back for that. Man up and accept what you’ve done. If you shy away from what you did now, there’s no turning back later.
  13. MAKE SURPRISE VISITS

    This is THE BEST kind of surprise you can ever give them. nothing is better than seeing each other. No matter how weird and cliche it sounds, but things do fall into the right place once you two are together.
  14. SHARE EVERYTHING

    This is the most important part of the relationship. Being able to tell the other person how you felt throughout the day might sound a little cliche, but it is the best you could do. But yes, don’t force them into knowing EACH AND EVERYTHING.
    A: ‘Hey I made a cheese sandwich today.’
    B: ‘I’ll alert the media.’
    Like seriously, no. Nobody wants to have an absolutely unnecessary conversation like that. Other than what happened above, you should be able to tell each other everything else







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